12 Dates of Christmas
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We are in full swing. The calendar is full. My to do list is overflowing. But it’s so important to take time to connect with your spouse. Both of us are busy and I am starting to feel the stress of the holidays affecting our relationship. When I sit down to really evaluate how I want Christmastime to feel in my home, I want it to be a cherished time of connection. I sat down and brainstormed ways to correct the busy disconnect we are feeling. We always expect our spouse to understand but I am hoping to press the reset button so that we do not have major damage control to do when January comes around. These 12 Christmas Dates are simple ways to connect with your spouse, without spending extra money and without putting even more on your to do list.
1. Wrap Christmas Presents Together
Put on some fun Christmas music, wear your comfy Christmas PJs and make it a fun experience. It has to get done either way so might as well make it a time to enjoy together. If you need to wrap for each other, divide the room and promise not to peek. That way you can still enjoy being together while being a little silly about what you’re wrapping.
2. Do a Christmas Puzzle
I love a good puzzle. Not sure my husband shares the love with me but when we sit down at the table we have the best conversations. Here is a pretty Christmas puzzle if you need a new one.
3. Neighborhood Light Tour
This is fun whether you walk or drive. Grab something cozy to drink, hold hands and take in the pretty lights.
4. Watch a Christmas Movie
There is nothing like snuggling under the same blanket watching a holiday classic.
5. Play games by the fire
My husband and I are both competitive and we enjoy playing games. Something that we have learned in our 12 years of marriage, keep it light, keep it fun. Once that competitive streak comes out, it can turn ugly really fast.
Here are a few games that we enjoy playing together.
6. Enjoy a hot tub night
One of our favorite things to do after the kids go to bed is go enjoy the hot tub. It is perfect hot tub weather right now. Sit, soak, and enjoy a good chat.
7. Go see a Christmas Concert
I recommend checking out the productions at a local church. We have many in the area that have truly magical Christmas concerts. Such a fun memory to share together.
8. Have a picnic by the Christmas Tree
Make a little Christmas charcuterie board, grab some cider and a cozy blanket and enjoy a romantic night under the Christmas lights.
9. Make a ginger bread house
The last time my husband and I made a gingerbread house together was in 2009 when we were dating. It did not go well. haha. But maybe we have matured enough to try it again. Test out our communication growth a little.
10. Christmas Shopping Date
This is another, two birds with one stone. You need to get the gifts anyway. Make it a fun event. Be silly together. Find unique gifts. And then grab some dinner afterwards.
11. Read a Christmas Devotional
Whether you do this as a family or as husband and wife, gather around the tree before bed and reflect on Jesus. Sit in the wonder of the greatest gift given.
12. Get dressed up for a fancy Christmas parties
Christmas parties can be somewhat dreaded. There are just so many. Between church, school, and work they can add up fast. First, let me say, you do not have to go to every party that you are invited to. Pick and choose so that your calendar isn’t too full.
Now, on the nights of your Christmas parties, try to be present. Enjoy the proccess of getting dressed up together. Enjoy being together. Don’t get wrapped up in socializing at the party that you ignore your spouse. Have fun together!
I hope that you are able to not only do all the fun things that Christmas brings but also connect with those you love the most. Don’t get too stressed to slow down and enjoy the moments of togetherness. It is often just a mindset shift. Enjoy these Christmas date ideas and simply enjoy being together.
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